Category: Intervening negative behavior

6 Reasons to Not Ask “Why”- For Parents
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No more excuses! This post is about not asking for excuses by asking your kids to explain why they did something wrong or forgot to do something they were supposed to do (or had agreed to do). This is a common pattern that will create problems and can undermine your authority. Here’s why asking “why”…

11 Reasons to Use Boundaries- For Parents
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Establishing your authority with boundaries * Boundaries allow you to express your limits and to communicate the conditions or availability of certain privileges that your children desire. * Boundaries prevent conflict and build win-win power structures. They help you take care of yourself while attempting to accommodate your children’s needs or desires. * Boundaries build…

10 Characteristics of Healthy Adult-Child Relationships
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Description of the characteristics Healthy, functional relationships between adults and children (including teacher-student relationships) are characterized by the following. Increasing the presence of these characteristics in your relationships is a great way to improve commitment, communications, cooperation and consideration, and reduce stress and conflict as well! This list applies to parents and care-givers as well…

Product: Article Reprints
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Articles by Dr. Jane Bluestein This is a complete listing of the article reprints available on this site. The articles are listed in alphabetical order and cover a wide range of topics, primarily for parents and educators, with some subjects

Video: Win-Win Parenting
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Four video presentation on one DVD featuring Dr. Jane Bluestein Win-win authority dynamics applied to relationships between parents and children. Includes practical strategies and tips for avoiding conflict, engaging cooperative behavior, building responsibility, setting boundaries and following through, and supporting children’s emotional needs. Appropriate for parents, grandparents, foster parents, and

Audio: ParentTapes
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Two audio CDs or mp3 audio files featuring Dr. Jane Bluestein These CDs are included in our Free Book listing. Cost helps cover our shipping charges via Media Mail in continental US. Choose plastic case or paper envelopes. (Please see information for international shipping if you are ordering from outside the U.S.) Hear Dr. Bluestein…

Book: Parents, Teens and Boundaries
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How to Draw the Line by Dr. Jane Bluestein Copies will be shipped directly from the publisher. We are out of stock on this book.  The best-selling book that has helped thousands of parents get beyond surviving their kids’ teen years to a place where they can actually enjoy them. This book looks at the parent-child…

Book: Listas Para Padres
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Qué Hacer y Qué No libro de Jane Bluestein We are down to our last THREE copies of this book. This book is included in our Free Book listing. Link for shipping charge only (continental US). Description below ordering links. (Please see information for international shipping if you are ordering from outside the U.S.)  Más de…