Audio: ParentTapes to Download

By Dr. Jane BluesteinSeptember 19, 2012May 25, 2022 Audio products, Avoiding power struggles with your kids, Bookstore, bookstore, Discipline, Health and Safety, Intervening negative behavior, Motivating your kids, Parenting, Parenting, Parents, Recognition and Reinforcement, Rules and Boundaries, Social and Emotional Growth, Taking care of yourself, Win-win parenting authority Leave a comment

Two mp3 audio files to download featuring Dr. Jane Bluestein Hear Dr. Bluestein in a live—and very lively—presentation in front of more than 200 parents of kids of all ages and stages. You’ll get nearly 2 hours’ worth of simple, practical ideas for building relationships with your kids. This entertaining and dynamic program will

Book: Parents, Teens and Boundaries

By Dr. Jane BluesteinSeptember 19, 2012May 25, 2022 Avoiding power struggles with your kids, Books, bookstore, Bookstore, Discipline, Discipline, Increasing Positivity, Intervening negative behavior, Intervening negative behavior, Motivating your kids, Parenting, Parenting, Parents, Problem solving, Recognition and reinforcement, Rules and Boundaries, Win-win parenting authority 2 Comments

How to Draw the Line by Dr. Jane Bluestein We are sold out of all remaining copies of this book, which is no longer in print. This book is currently in revision for a 25th anniversary edition, and next in line for an online release. Please search online retailers for copies in the meantime. The…

Book: Listas Para Padres

By Dr. Jane BluesteinSeptember 19, 2012May 25, 2022 Avoiding power struggles with your kids, Books, Bookstore, bookstore, Culture and Community, Discipline, Health and Safety, Homework, Increasing Positivity, Intervening negative behavior, Learning, Learning styles, Motivating your kids, Parenting, Parenting, Problem solving, Rules and Boundaries, Social and Emotional Growth, Win-win parenting authority 2 Comments

Qué Hacer y Qué No libro de Jane Bluestein Más de 1.000 tips para construir mejores relaciones, con ideas simples, prácticas y comprobadas para ayudarle a construir el carácter, aumentar el rendimiento escolar, motivar la cooperación, reducir las fricciones, solucionar problemas y

Book: The Parent’s Little Book of Lists

By Dr. Jane BluesteinSeptember 19, 2012November 21, 2022 Avoiding power struggles with your kids, Books, Bookstore, bookstore, Discipline, Health and Safety, Homework, Increasing Positivity, Intervening negative behavior, Learning, Learning styles, Motivating your kids, Parenting, Parenting, Problem solving, Rules and Boundaries, Social and Emotional Growth, Win-win parenting authority boundaries, build decision making, building mutual respect, changing family dynamics, consideration for others, effective parenting, encouragement, follow through, happy families, healthy families, help with chores, help with homework, increasing kids' cooperation, loving relationships, modeling, motivating children, motivating kids, raising responsible children, reducing conflict, respect, self-management, setting limits, supporting children through divorce, teaching gratitude, win-win authority, your child's behavior 3 Comments

Do’s and Don’ts of Effective Parenting (25th Anniversary Edition) by Dr. Jane Bluestein Make the most of your relationship with your children. This book offers practical tips for creating a win-win authority relationship in an atmosphere of love, caring, and mutual respect. Includes thousands of simple, effective, kid-tested ideas to help you build character,…

Book: The Book of Article Reprints

By Dr. Jane BluesteinSeptember 19, 2012May 25, 2022 Avoiding power struggles, Avoiding power struggles with your kids, Beginning Teachers, Behavior Management, Behavior Management, Books, bookstore, Bookstore, Building responsibility, Classroom management, Creating community, Culture and Community, Discipline, Discipline, General Interest, Increasing Positivity, Intervening negative behavior, Leadership, Mentorship, Motivating your kids, Parent-Teacher relationships, Parenting, Parenting, Problem solving, Rules and Boundaries, Rules and Boundaries, Social and Emotional Growth, Teacher Appreciation, Teaching, Win-win authority, Win-win parenting authority Leave a comment

A collection of articles for educators, counselors, and parents by Dr. Jane Bluestein This collection is available as a PDF eBook download. Here, finally, is a collection of more than four decades’ worth of articles by Dr. Jane Bluestein, including several made available through I.S.S. Publications for the first time.

Motivating Cooperative Behavior

By Dr. Jane BluesteinAugust 20, 2012May 26, 2022 Avoiding power struggles, Avoiding power struggles with your kids, Behavior Management, Behavior Management, Discipline, Discipline, Intervening negative behavior, Intervening negative behavior, Motivating cooperation, Motivating your kids, Parenting, Parenting, Rules and Boundaries, Rules and Boundaries, Win-win authority, Win-win parenting authority Leave a comment

Three Approaches to Authority Relationships Two Win-Lose approaches that can compromise the emotional safety of the environment:

Ways to Build IRRESPONSIBILITY in Children

By Dr. Jane BluesteinAugust 12, 2012May 31, 2022 Behavior Management, Building responsibility, Culture and Community, Discipline, Motivating your kids, Parenting, Parenting, Parents, Rules and Boundaries, Social and Emotional Growth, Win-win parenting authority Leave a comment

Things you can do to reinforce children’s irresponsible behavior • Lie for them. • Make excuses for their behavior. Correct (or pay for) their mistakes for them. • Model a lack of responsibility, commitment, and follow-through yourself. • Refuse to believe that they are capable of doing what they’ve been accused of doing.

Parenting Teens

By Dr. Jane BluesteinAugust 12, 2012May 31, 2022 Avoiding power struggles, Avoiding power struggles with your kids, Building responsibility, Counselors, Discipline, Educators, Intervening negative behavior, Motivating your kids, Parenting, Parenting, Parents, Recognition and Reinforcement, Recognition and reinforcement, Rules and Boundaries, Win-win parenting authority all-or-nothing thinking, boundaries and teens, boundary issues with teens, conflict with teens, expectations, healthy parents healthy teens, kids as teens, non-authoritarian approach to parenting, not giving up, obstacles to parenting success, parental control, parenting, parenting teens, setting limits with teens, win-win parenting, win-win relationships with teens Leave a comment

How to Draw the Line Counselors know that when parents set clear boundaries, they take care of their teens and themselves.

The Challenge of Setting Boundaries

By Dr. Jane BluesteinAugust 10, 2012May 31, 2022 Avoiding power struggles, Avoiding power struggles with your kids, Behavior Management, Discipline, Discipline, Educators, Intervening negative behavior, Intervening negative behavior, Motivating cooperation, Motivating your kids, Parenting, Parenting, Parents, Recognition and Reinforcement, Rules and Boundaries, Rules and Boundaries, Teaching, Win-win parenting authority alternative to authoritarian parenting, alternative to permissive parenting, avoiding power struggles, boundaries, dealing with negative behavior, discipline, getting your kids to cooperate, healthy relationships, motivating your kids, recognition, reinforcement, rules, win-win parenting Leave a comment

A Win-Win Alternative to an Authoritarian or Permissive Approach Few of us are especially adept at setting boundaries with anyone, and for good reason. Let’s back up a bit. When you were growing up, were you told that other people’s needs were more important than yours? Were you rewarded for self-sacrificing and people-pleasing? Were you…