Dr. Jane Bluestein

Living an Inconsistent Life

inconsistency, moving forward anywayI just read this article about successful blogging, and like every similar piece I’ve seen, this one contained a strong word of advice about being consistent. This makes sense: people tuned into a particular person or resource like to be able to count on regular contact, updates, and materials.

I know all the “shoulds” and would love to be better at this than I am. (Read more…)

Motivation vs. Manipulation—There is a difference! 

carrot motivationThis question comes up in nearly all my seminars and workshops. Our approach to motivating and reinforcing kids matters! Fortunately, we can do both without relying on manipulation or creating a dependence on their need for attention or conditional approval. Read more…

Now available in Icelandic!

Check out our latest positive message template! Eight ways to show appreciation. Now in Icelandic! Or click here to check out the other 41 languages (43 templates).

Important notice: We have retired the 800 number previously associated with this business and will no longer be receiving faxes after 9/27/15. Please contact our office (and me) via email, through our land line at 505-323-9044, or by my cell (voice or text) at 505-250-3965. Thanks!

Books and other resources bundled for special savings

books, gifts, bundles, educators, parentsThe following combination of resources were originally offered as specially priced product bundles exclusively for newsletter subscribers, Facebook friends, and Twitter and Linked In followers. They are now available to all site visitors. Includes special prices on individual items when purchased with available bundles.

Click here for special discounts on bundled items for educatorsClick here for special discounts on bundled items for parents.

About this site:

My first Web site appeared with a handful of pages in 1997. This is the 4th version of the site, launched at the end of 2012 with a new look and a lot of new features. Although the appearance and structure of the site has changed over the years, my intentions have always been to inspire positive and practical ways to connect with one another in caring, emotionally safe environments. With an emphasis on adult-child relationships, nearly all of the material on culture and community, learning, teaching and parenting, motivation and behavior, and self-care can be applied to adult relationships as well. (Read more…)

Featured links:

• In addition to several hundred free Web pages on this site, we also offer books, articles, audio, video, and stationery and gift items for sale for parents and teachers of children of all ages, new teachers, administrators, counselors, and the general public. Click here for a list of resources.

• We now have 23 free podcasts on various topics relevant to educators and parents and have three more in the can, which I hope to post in the next few weeks. Click here for the full listing by topic of the podcasts on the site so far. Be sure to click on the  Program Notes above the photo. They’ve all been updated with new graphics and new links. (Note: We’ve had some reports of the podcasts not playing on Firefox on some Macs. You can still download the files to your hard drive and listen from there.)

Click here for free downloads of our “Pads” on the Back™ Templates with 8 different ways to acknowledge the people you value and appreciate in your life. We now have 44 templates available in 42 different languages!

• For information about the photos of kids displayed at the bottom of every page on this site, click here.

• Oh, and if you don’t know who I am yet, click here for my bio, here to see where I have spoken, or here to see a short video.

Or just click on one of the links in the navigation bar and find an article, handout, blog, podcast, presentation, or product you can use. There is plenty more to come in the coming weeks, as I look forward to continuing to convert pages from the old site and add new content here as well.

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The content on this site is free. You are welcome to download, copy, distribute, or use the material with proper attribution in any way you feel will be helpful. (Click here for legal and karmic stuff related to using these resources.)

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